How do your saboteurs (those annoying voices in our head) get in your way?
(Português do Brasil) “Pobre Sandra, tem que ir lá fora limpar neve.”
03/02/2021
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(Português do Brasil) “Pobre Sandra, tem que ir lá fora limpar neve.”
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